When it comes to online dating, the selection of sites is astounding. A good way to find your soulmate online (or at least, a soulmate that isn’t 45 000 km from you) is to search on localised dating sites. Dating in the UK seems to be somewhat easy with a great selection of sites that offers free dating. Here’s a few ones that may be of interest to you if you’re in the UK, in no particular order:

• http://www.flirtbox.co.uk/

A free online dating UK site that tackles the look of a community site first, dating site second. Free chat and forums, news, articles and more make this UK Free dating site a pretty complete one. You can also find on the site top 5 of men and women on site, and a popular feature a la Hot or Not where you rate other members on their pics. Free online dating that may not be for everyone, but still a great way to meet potential singles from the United Kingdom.

• http://www.completelyfreedating.co.uk/

They promote themselves as a 100% free dating site for the people in the UK. Completely Free Dating is an online dating service for singles in the UK that is 100% free and they guarantee that they will never charge for any service to any member. A free online dating service that is really 100% free, no hidden charges, no credit card required, no money back offers, no gimmicks, just free online UK dating that really is, well, free.

• http://www.freedating.co.uk/

Supposedly one of the most popular free online dating sites in the UK, the site offers free online dating with profile search and messaging. If you’re into popularity contest, check out their most clicked pics and try to rank in there to get an edge on your free online dating in the UK !

• http://www.loopylove.com/

One of the largest free online dating site in the United Kingdom, loopylove has over 1.6 million active member on their site from the UK.  Another community oriented site, it allows you to upload and watch videos, pictures, send emails and chat live with other members. The site also allows you to have your own personalised profile. Dating news and articles complement the site.

• http://www.imyours.co.uk/

Advertised as one of the top UK online dating site for meeting local singles, Imyours differenciate itself from the pack by offering offline Speed Dating events. Originally used only by Londoners, this site is currently expanding to cover other parts of the United Kingdom. They also have community oriented sections like blogs and forums, and a nice dating advice section complete this ever-growing site.

Did you know that the basic fears of a girl is what decides if she will sleep with you or not? A woman must be released of any of these anxieties or fears before she invites you to her bed. You need to remove these obstacles to her bedroom. To leverage a woman’s point of view to your advantage, you need to understand these fears. Don’t worry, there’s mostly only three to remember :

First; Women are always worried about how they look. Their weight, their wardrobe, size of their bust, their general attractiveness and more. To eliminate this one, you need to tell her how beautiful she is. But be careful, tell her what you think of her eyes, her legs, her skin, but not necessarily her breasts (at least not on the first date, or before you’ve at least caressed them) ! Complement about her clothes, her hair, her jewellery but never diminish or criticize her in any way if you want to make your way to her bedroom.

Secondly; Women are afraid of abandonment. She needs to feel that after you’ll sleep with her, you’ll still be there to hold her and be part of her future. It may be a good idea in your pre-bed conversation that you make allusion to the fact that you look forward to spending more time with her (suggests some exciting activities for the next time you’ll go out together), and why you can see the two of you together in the future.

Third and last one; Women fear unwanted pregnancy or contracting a STD. You can deal with this fear by approching the subject of safe sex during your conversation. Anyway, most women these days won’t have sex with you without a condom. Look for ways to talk about this in a non-direct or non-threatening way. Use some generic sentences like “I really think it’s important that people use condoms when making love”. Word it in a way so you use third party references and names.

Remember these three small fears on your next date, and try to brush up the subject of all three during your conversation with her over dinner, and you may end up faster than you think on your way to her bedroom.